Such an easy trap to fall into. One person's justice can be another's injustice. One thing that the last several years has taught me is that I must disengage and step back. I must watch what I immerse myself in. When tempted to ask, "How could they...?" I often need to reframe and ask, "Why would they...?" The 1st question is framed in judgment. The 2nd is framed in attempting to understand. For me, this is a more peaceful place to exist.
Hi Joy,
Such an easy trap to fall into. One person's justice can be another's injustice. One thing that the last several years has taught me is that I must disengage and step back. I must watch what I immerse myself in. When tempted to ask, "How could they...?" I often need to reframe and ask, "Why would they...?" The 1st question is framed in judgment. The 2nd is framed in attempting to understand. For me, this is a more peaceful place to exist.
Thank you again for your insights.
Ken
Thanks Ken, for your thoughts. This is a much better way to approach conflict of all sorts.
I needed this! Right now, today. Thank you, Joy!
I knew I was writing it for someone!! Spirit always knows 🩷🙏🩷